Oh, honey, you dropped it. We'll definitely have to get something insertable that's easier to clench." Oh, that was sweet," said Jessica, "as hard as I could make it. I do so hope that was hard enough for you, because that's the best I've got. Go ahead now, ask for the next one, honey, as soon as you're ready." You can experiment with impact play if your sub is on board with the idea, but if it’s new to either of you, make sure you move slowly.

Did you know studies show that over 65% of women fantasize about being submissive? It’s true. Women like dominant guys who know how to take control in the bedroom — there’s no doubt about it. The night is hers. If she does not want to go out to dinner, does not want to go out for a drink, does not want sex, or does not wish to watch a movie together, then accept her wishes and move on. Do what SHE wants to do, and understand the pressures and strains she is under Imagine sex was like this: you get to do exactly what you want, when you want, at all times. You tell your partner what you want them to do, or what you’re going to do to them, and they willingly oblige. You’re in total control and all-powerful. You get to use your partner exclusively for your own pleasure, and they worship you for it. The more we emphasize and exaggerate those power dynamics, the better the sex. People who enjoy D/s sex tend to experience power-triggered arousal more than the average person. People Like to Be Desired Your partner still needs to feel secure in his/her everyday life, so there are going to be limits to how far you can take things. 5. Choose Your Preferred TerminologyOne of the main reasons guys enjoy being Doms is that it lets them be more selfish in the bedroom. They get to dictate what happens, and a lot of guys find that power thrilling. To find out if you’re one of them, let’s try a little thought experiment. At His house I shall be naked at all times, unless otherwise requested. (This one proved not to be practical. It’s too cold and I have big windows! That said, she’s often mostly naked, such as wearing nothing but a long t-shirt, which gives me easy access to her whenever I want)

Being handcuffed to the kitchen pole naked for up to 30 minutes while she gets to relax watching favorite shows and sipping wine You might think the rules you give to your submissive are designed to make her do what you want. That’s partly true, but doesn’t capture the entire essence of what their purpose is You are nothing to me but a plaything. You are an object that exists in my life solely to make it better or for my amusement and/or pleasure. Other, lighter offenses are classically punished by denial of orgasm, tease & denial, ruined orgasm and humiliating things. And there are a number of other penalties as well.I also copied the list (remember, my list of rules is small because I can also give commands and I don’t live with her) and sent it to her via Whatsapp (easier to reference than an online document). Rules I use for my sub Punishment is the aspect that goes thru all the core categories. Here we will touch on some popular punishments that we haven't already discussed above. Combing multiple punishments are particularly effective. A lot of elements of Dom/sub sex are degrading, humiliating, offensive, and wrong — and that’s exactly what makes them so appealing. These same elements tend to be part of most kinks because humans seem to inexplicably associate these ‘ negative’ emotions with hotter sex. Your list of rules for your submissive may be even shorter, and that’s absolutely fine, even encouraged, if you are just starting out. It’s better to have one rule which is enforced and you both enjoy, than 100 where only a handful are followed haphazardly.” Every Sunday evening you will write down three things that could be improved in our relationship and read them to me.

Once a week, William's loving wife becomes the masturbatrix and humiliatrix of his fetishistic dreams, all while she watches her favorite TV show, The Bachelorette. You’ll need to talk to your partner about how you’re going to carry out those power roles in your everyday life and set out expectations. You can’t completely deprive your sub of agency or power, so you might have to ‘tone down’ the roles you usually play in the bedroom.

What does this tell us? It tells us that, if you want to satisfy your partner in bed, you need to learn how to dominate her. You need to learn to wear the pants, be more selfish, and act like the alpha you are. Dismissed naked to the annex wearing face dildo. He will spend 30 minutes thinking of ways to improve whilst spanking himself. Whilst I might set this as a rule if I was to run a high protocol BDSM scene as a one-off, it isn’t something I would want enforced all day every day.

Good boy; a hundred more now, really fast ones. But this time honey, keep your hand perfectly still and hump it like a doggy on a bitch. Go ahead now." SOME rules are just that. Things that make your life as a dominant easier, as well as things you want sexually. William repeated his mantra over and over, still on his knees and still facing the wall, until he had completed his stroking assignment.Rule 3 was more cerebral and re-enforced rule two. William was required to repeat one of his memorized mantras softly, over and over, whenever he masturbated himself. "Get to the edge for Jessica, no cummies allowed... Get to the edge for Jessica, no cummies allowed." Thank you sweetheart, I do so appreciate the time you spend meeting my ridicules, kinky fetishes, and I am sorry for being late for the nice evening you had planned." Obedience will come naturally from chastity, but even if at first it is not a rule, it is best to use chastity and his love and devotion to make this an official rule at the first opportunity. Once obedience to you is the rule, all aspects of your training and happy FLR will come faster.